Off for the Holidays

Holiday is a loaded word, especially when it comes to travel. Our holiday trips often carry expectations far beyond the journey itself. During the dark months, we dream, plan, compare destinations, make reservations, and wait for that special moment when we can finally close our laptops, lock the front door, and head off toward something we have been longing for.

The Travel Anxiety We Rarely Talk About

Yet when the time finally arrives, beneath the excitement there can also be apprehension.

Will everything work out? What if there is an airline issue? Will we make the connection? Will the weather cooperate? Will the accommodation be what we expected?

Whatever may happen along the way, travel anxiety is often less about the disruption itself and more about the pressure we place on ourselves to keep everything under control. Delays, cancellations, and unexpected changes can trigger stress that was already present before the journey even began.

I have learned that much of our discomfort comes from the belief that a successful holiday depends on everything unfolding exactly as planned.

Taking a Sensory Pause

One practice I use myself is what I call a sensory pause.

Instead of immediately trying to fix the problem or search for solutions, I step outside, take a slow walk, and consciously notice what I can see, hear, smell, and feel. The warmth of the sun on my skin. The sound of distant birds. The scent of rain or pine trees. The feeling of my feet meeting the ground.

More often than not, clarity arrives when I stop fighting the situation.

I also try to focus on what remains within my control rather than what has been lost. This is one of the reasons I love slow travel so deeply. Leaving space between destinations and allowing time for the unexpected creates room not only for practical solutions, but also for experiences that could never have been planned.

What Is Perfect, Anyway?

Many travelers today feel pressure to make every trip perfect. Yet some of the most meaningful experiences emerge from unexpected detours.

Perhaps there is a hidden place you would never have discovered otherwise. Perhaps there is a conversation, a landscape, or a moment of stillness that was quietly waiting for you all along.

Travel is not only a journey across places. It is also an opportunity to notice how we ourselves, and those traveling beside us, respond to uncertainty.

Sometimes the most important question is not:

"Why is this happening?"

But rather:

"What is this moment inviting me to notice?"

These are the real treasures we bring home from our travels. Not the perfect itinerary, but the moments that changed how we saw the world, and ourselves.

If you wish to explore personal travel coaching, read on here.

Discovering Your Life’s Purpose: On How to Align Your Goals with Your True Self

I was honoured to be featured by Authority Magazine in a conversation about purpose, transformation, and the journeys that quietly change us.

This blog post was created alongside the interview published on 29 May 2025 and continues the reflections we explored there; how intentional travel, nature, and moments of pause can help us reconnect with ourselves and create lives that feel more aligned from within.

At The Journey Studio, I believe the most meaningful journeys are rarely only about the destination. They are about returning to your own direction, values, and way of being.

Thank you so much for your time! I know that you are a very busy person. Our readers would love to “get to know you” a bit better. Can you tell us a bit about your ‘backstory’ and how you got started?

I come from Finland, the world’s happiest country for 8 years running, where I have always returned for its grounding calm after studying and working in the USA, Europe, and Asia.

After a successful leadership career in marketing and tourism, I experienced burnout. I needed a pause, distance from everything I had been responsible for.

When I applied for a sabbatical, I began to see light at the end of the tunnel and started preparing for my first solo adventure. I am a mother of two adult sons and had already been separated from their father for several years. During my six-month intentional reset, I combined some family travel with my sons and parents across Iceland, Peru, the USA, Spain, Belgium, the UAE, Thailand and Finland, naturally. For the first time, I felt a clear calling to also travel solo, returning to meaningful places and people along the way.

I did not fully understand the transformative journey I had embarked on until I found myself paused at Machu Picchu. Walking through the ancient ruins, with a butterfly suddenly appearing beside me in the Andes, I felt more alive than I had in years. As I exited through the gate, I knew I was heading in an entirely new direction.

Later, I drove across Spain in a manual Fiat and visited the Alhambra, where I had once been young and in love with my fiancé. This time, walking alone among the autumn colors, I stepped forward with a sense of peace and understood that I was truly okay on my own.

One realization led to another. My connection to myself led me to The Travel Coach Network, where I became engaged. While studying transformation, I returned to my home woods, where I finally began to hear myself and understand the simplicity of it all. Within the following year, I became a certified transformative travel coach (ICF/CCE), created my Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® nature-based methology, left my career, finalized my divorce, and founded The Journey Studio.

Today, I am grateful to have found myself again, leaving behind what no longer serves me and building a life around authentic connection, while helping others pause and reconnect with themselves.

None of us can achieve success without some help along the way. Is there a particular person that you are grateful for, who helped get you to where you are? Can you share a story?

The person I am most grateful for is my father, whose encouragement and example have given me the courage to explore and grow.

Simply put, growing up as his daughter, I never felt limited by being a girl. I didn’t realize there were expectations about how one should or should not be because of gender. He was always present, engaging with me, with my horse, and later allowing me to grow by working in his business as a teenager.

I admired his way of working: leading by example, understanding the trade from the ground up, and being available to his customers, even on weekends if they needed him.

There were no limitations placed on my vision, and no expectations for me to take over his business. Instead, he encouraged me to study for a business degree, believing I could do anything.

As I later moved from West to East during my studies and career, I came to understand what a privilege this upbringing was. It has shaped my path, and I have found deep meaning in empowering women and girls first through lecturing at university, and now through my coaching work.

You are a successful leader. Which three character traits do you think were most instrumental to your success? Can you please share a story or example for each?

I come from a country of sisu: the Finnish concept of quiet persistence and inner strength that carries you through even the hardest moments.

We all face times when we are alone on our path, encountering changing conditions, much like the weather in Finland or the unpredictability of business. There are obstacles, uncertainty, and situations where things do not go as planned. While challenges can be solved together, you must also learn to manage yourself. In those moments, you draw on something deeper.

Sisu is not aggression, nor is it simply endurance. It is the quiet decision to continue with responsibility when conditions are not ideal. It is also the wisdom to step aside when needed. It is a form of self-leadership, and it has been the most important characteristic in my journey.

When I was building Star Cineplex, Bangladesh’s first multiplex cinema, the early years were difficult. We were introducing an entirely new concept, educating audiences, and creating a safe, welcoming environment for families. There were many challenges, but I stayed committed as Managing Director, building connections, leading the team from ticket counters to management, and continuing the work step by step until it began to succeed. Today, Star Cineplex is the largest cinema chain in the country.

Secondly, courage has guided me throughout my life. It has taken me to new countries, new roles, and opportunities I did not hesitate to embrace. I have learned by doing, and I have also learned to listen to trust the expertise of others when needed. Courage grows through action, and even through uncertainty.

Recently, courage meant stepping away from a well-established director role and beginning again as an entrepreneur. During my burnout, I felt I had lost that courage. I went searching for it during my sabbatical travels. Relearning to drive a manual car and navigating my way across Spain became unexpectedly empowering. Alongside meaningful conversations with a coach, I began to reconnect with myself. At 54, I realized that courage had not disappeared, but it had simply changed form. My experience and wisdom now carry me forward, and courage continues to grow step by step.

Thirdly, my connection to nature and my inner senses has been a guiding force throughout my life. Growing up close to nature gave me a strong sense of awareness of seasons, emotions, and intuition. I developed an inner knowing of what feels right or not, often without needing to analyze it.

This connection has helped me meet the right people, be in the right places, and sense when to move forward or step back. However, during the most intense years of my career, I lost that connection. I became overwhelmed, disconnected from myself, and no longer listened to my inner voice.

Looking back, I feel compassion for that version of myself, constantly moving, holding everything together, yet no longer present or enjoying life. My body eventually responded, as it often does, forcing me to stop.

During my sabbatical, that connection began to return, step by step. I found my way back home within myself.

Today, I do not regret the journey. I may have let go of certain roles, possessions, and even relationships along the way, but I have regained something far more valuable; myself, and a renewed connection to my inner sense and direction.

Ok, fantastic. Let’s now turn to the crux of our interview. Was there a defining moment or experience in your life when you felt a clear sense of your purpose? How did it influence the goals you set from that point forward?

In January 2025, I profoundly knew that my life was changing. My sabbatical was nearing its end, and the return to the office and to my old ways was approaching.

All the inner understanding I had gathered during my travels had been building up. I had enrolled in the Travel Coaching program, and suddenly, I began to see again.

When I returned to Finland and wandered in the forests, I understood what nature had given me all these years: the silent support, never leaving me alone, awakening my senses. My recovery, returning to my senses, came through reconnecting with nature, and with my own nature.

This is now the root of my coaching method, and to me, it is also the root of Finnish happiness.

Walking along the nature trail at my Lake Saimaa villa, I remember breathing in with a clear sense of purpose. That was where I began building my Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® method. Luontopolku means nature trail in my native language.

Not only did I see, but I felt it. It was as if the ground beneath my feet was shifting as I stepped onto a new path, letting go of the old and moving forward in my relationships, work, and life.

I was still scared, but also triumphant, relieved to be moving on, almost as if walking a few feet above the ground. I felt free again, yet deeply conscious of my choices.

From that point, I began to map out my actions for the year ahead. I created space and processes to begin something new, while ensuring that my previous responsibilities were handled with care and continuity.

I was able to let go, no longer needing to feed my ego or maintain a certain image. Life became simpler. I began to enjoy connection, conversation, presence, and being back in nature, in tune with my own nature. My curiosity and creativity returned.

I found myself doing what I love again: creating, exploring, and pushing boundaries. I became deeply interested in what nature does to us and the inner connection it can awaken.

At the same time, I made a quiet but firm decision: I would no longer stay in situations that do not serve me or live out of alignment with who I truly am.

I chose to focus on what is meaningful. To do less, but with more intention. To help others while also living in peace myself.

And in that moment, I realized something simple yet profound:

I no longer needed to escape my life or travel far to find myself.

I was already home.

What practical steps can someone take to begin uncovering their life’s purpose if they feel lost or unsure about their direction?

It is okay to feel lost at times. It happens to all of us. But in truth, we are never completely lost, the inner knowing is still there.

I believe that much of the busyness we have created for ourselves, this constant doing and performing based on what we think we are supposed to do, can lead us away from our true path. By losing our connection with nature, we often lose connection with ourselves. Yet I also believe we can always find our way back home.

The Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® method I developed during my Travel Coach studies does not require you to travel far. It requires listening.

In Finland, we say:

“The forest answers what you shout into it.”

Research in Finland shows that even 10 minutes in nature can calm the heartbeat, while time spent walking in nature lowers cortisol levels, supports burnout recovery, helps prevent depression, and enhances mindfulness.

In simple terms: go out for a walk in nature on your own and listen. Feel the wind, touch what draws your attention, and allow yourself to wander. Notice the small things that catch your awareness as these are often cues guiding you forward.

If you wish to explore this more deeply, you can use reflective walking resources or join a guided walk. Taking distance and immersing yourself in new surroundings can also bring clarity. When we travel intentionally, we often begin to see more clearly who we are, what we miss, and what we no longer need.

I believe that giving yourself time, being alone with intention, and following your calling in small steps will gradually lead you toward clarity, and toward your purpose.

How do you differentiate between external pressures—like societal expectations—and the inner calling that aligns with your true self?

I believe that we carry the answers within us, and by questioning ourselves intentionally, we begin to receive sensory affirmation on our path.

To better listen in, I recommend setting off solo, preferably on a nature trail, with a question or issue in the back of your mind that you need clarity on. As you walk, nature begins to show signs that only you can truly understand.

Starting to pay attention to what arises intuitively brings us closer to clarity. The more we tune into our sensory reflections, the more we learn to trust and believe in them. If something does not feel right, we feel it.

When walking and talking with friends or family, it is important to remember that the perspectives they share are reflections of their own experiences and expectations of us. If we feel that we do not wish to share something with someone, that is often a cue, an invitation to recognize that differentiation.

Can you share an example of a time when you adjusted or abandoned a goal because it no longer aligned with your deeper sense of purpose? What did you learn from that experience?

I spent years building the Lake Saimaa brand and destination in Finland. I stepped into a role I had been headhunted for with strong ambition, establishing connections and growing visibility in our target markets. I come from this region and have always felt a deep love for it, along with a desire to bring it to the world stage.

As the work progressed, I was given more teams, responsibilities, and overlapping boards and projects. I am a connector and a doer, someone who ensures everything is taken care of but along the way, I forgot to pause myself. I lost my creativity, which had once fueled my marketing work and authorship, and it was no longer present.

I have always valued bringing people together and enabling others to succeed. Yet over time, I found myself doing my own work last and gradually losing myself during those intense years. At the same time, global external factors were affecting the region’s performance and accessibility, adding further pressure.

At one point, in the midst of prolonged stress, I was no longer courageous. My thinking became blurred, my clarity and vision faded, and I lost connection to my own inner sense.

For a long time, I kept performing, operating in a haze, repeating what I knew, until I finally found the courage to stop and step aside. I took a sabbatical to distance myself from something I had once deeply loved.

I chose not to return to my role. Instead, I stepped into entrepreneurship, where I now continue to represent the Lake Saimaa region in a different, more aligned way.

What I learned is that working in a way that disconnects you from yourself is not worth it, for you or for the work you do. When we are no longer able to give what we truly can, something essential is lost.

Only working is not living, and too much of anything becomes too much. We need to remain in tune with ourselves, to pause early enough, and to maintain balance in our lives.

This is the main question of our interview. What are “5 Ways to Align Your Goals With Your True Self”? (please share stories or examples)

Thank you for this opportunity to share how I approach alignment.

Through my Luontopolku – Back to Your Senses® methodology, I use nature as a framework for reflection, allowing nature to guide us back to our own nature.

It is a nature-based transformational wellbeing and travel method designed to guide individuals back to clarity and inner balance. Rooted in mindful presence, sensory awareness, and reflective guidance, it creates a structured yet intuitive path for personal insight and purposeful change.

The approach integrates movement in nature, reflective exercises, intentional pauses, and meaning-centered travel coaching into a holistic experience.

It follows five stages: pause, sensory awareness, threshold recognition, integration, and forward direction.

1. Pause

Meaningful change begins when we slow down.

Take time alone. Step away from your roles and responsibilities. Just be.

Ask yourself: Is this the life I am meant to live? Who am I without these roles?

I meet many high performers who never allow themselves to pause. Yet even ten minutes alone in nature can shift perspective. One executive told me that sitting quietly on a fallen tree, time stopped, and they wondered why they had never allowed themselves that before.

2. Sensory Awareness

Once we pause, we begin to notice.

Walk intentionally in nature with a question in mind. What is missing? What needs to change?

Nature begins to offer subtle cues through what draws your attention, what feels calming, what creates a sense of ease or resistance. Some feel drawn to water, others to rock or forest. These are not random, they are signals.

Many people I work with discover a deep need to be near water. By simply honoring that, they begin to feel more at peace. Start by bringing your natural element into your life.

3. Threshold Recognition

As awareness grows, moments of clarity emerge.

These often happen in open spaces; a viewpoint, a shoreline, a place that invites perspective. Something shifts.

You may suddenly realize what you have been holding onto, and why.

For me, this meant understanding that my long-held goal of staying married was no longer aligned with the reality of our lives living in separate countries.

These are threshold moments, the point where truth becomes visible.

4. Integration

Clarity alone is not enough; we need to integrate it into our lives.

This is where reflection and conversation become important. Speaking your thoughts out loud, often with a coach, helps you understand what you are ready to change.

Walking side by side, without pressure, allows thoughts to unfold naturally.

This is often when I hear: “This is what I am going to do.”

5. Forward Direction

With clarity comes movement.

Instead of pushing your dreams aside, you begin to move toward them. Courage grows step by step.

It is no longer about imagining a different life; it is about choosing it, one step at a time. Even small shifts create momentum.

Recently, in a conversation with a coach colleague, I saw this moment clearly, when she turned from responding to an opportunity that wasn’t truly hers, and instead chose to move toward something she deeply desired.

Alignment is not about one big decision.

It is about pausing, listening, and moving forward, again and again, in tune with yourself.

What advice would you give to people trying to pursue their purpose while managing the demands of day-to-day life, such as work, family, and other responsibilities?

Stay true to yourself while also honoring the people you share your life and work with.

Once you begin to understand your purpose and your needs, the next step is to integrate them into your existing life. This may require adjustments, small sacrifices, and finding balance by focusing on what truly matters to you.

Communicate openly: your feelings, your needs, your requirements for space or time. Have these conversations regularly, set your boundaries, and respect those of others.

In the end, you are the most important person in your life. When you are well and aligned, the people around you thrive as well.

How can our readers further follow your work?

You can connect with me through The Journey Studio, my company website at www.thejourneystudio.co, where you can explore ongoing programs, subscribe to my newsletter, or book a discovery call with me.

I’m always open and happy to connect.

Thank you so much for sharing these important insights. We wish you continued success and good health!

Read on if you feel called to explore your own New Beginning.

Returning Home to Yourself

The Quiet Work Beneath Change

I’m a travel coach who doesn’t simply send people away to travel.
And I’m not a mentor handing you another chart to complete or another version of yourself to perform.

What I offer is something quieter.

A space to simply be.
To leave your roles behind for a moment.
To sit without needing to explain yourself.

Sometimes there is only silence at first.
Sometimes a single sentence surfaces.
Sometimes just one word finds its way onto the page of a small notebook.

And that is enough.

I walk beside people when they are ready to move toward who they truly are beneath the expectations, responsibilities, and identities they have carried for years.

Together, we explore the thresholds they are standing before:
the boundaries they long to set, the space they need to reclaim, and the life that quietly asks to be lived on their own terms.

We Always Carry Ourselves Along

So often, we believe change will come from a new location, another country, a different job, or another relationship.

But wherever we go, we still bring ourselves with us.

The confinements surrounding us are not always external. Many are slowly built within our own lives, layer by layer, until one day we realise we can no longer fully breathe inside them.

And when that moment comes, many of us are already moving.

Searching for a way back home to ourselves.
Back to a place where we can care for our own wellbeing alongside everyone else’s.

The Exhaustion So Many Carry

This week, I have felt sadness seeing how tired so many people are.

Trying to meet expectations.
Trying to hold everything together.
Performing, pushing forward, and quietly falling exhausted underneath it all.

It is not worth losing yourself for.

Every one of us deserves a pause.
A space around us.
A moment to step aside and ask:

Who am I without the roles of parent, director, partner, caretaker, or fixer?

Sometimes the most important journey begins there.

Crossing Thresholds

This week, I guided a horse along trails he is only now brave enough to wholeheartedly explore. Two weeks ago, he resisted crossing the stable boundaries.

Watching him step forward in a new country reminded me how familiar fear can feel before growth.

I also had meaningful conversations with people standing at their own thresholds:
conversations about the courage required to claim space for themselves, and about journeys that are not simply wanted, but deeply necessary.

Not to escape life, but to return home within it.

And perhaps the most beautiful part was hearing people speak aloud how they truly wish to move forward this summer.

Listen In to Yourself

I keep walking.
I keep listening.

And this season, I hope you will listen in to yourself too.

Walk gently. Listen deeply. Return to your own nature.

Explore Your Trail.

Horse Energy

There are things that pull us, quietly, yet powerfully, drawing us closer to see, explore, and experience.

For me, that pull has always been horses.

My earliest memory is of holding onto the leg of an old workhorse, hugging him with complete devotion, to the horror of my grandfather, from whom I had escaped. A few years later, I climbed from that same leg onto the back of that great Finnish breed. From there, the path continued naturally: riding school, working at trotting stables, and eventually owning my own mare.

Growing up with a horse

As a teenager, growing up with a horse was an education in responsibility but even more so in relationship.

It meant learning nuance, presence, and trust.
Learning to understand another being beyond words.

My mare became a grounding force in my life. A companion on nature trails, a quiet friend I sometimes even slept beside. We learned to read each other, to respond to the subtle shifts in energy that each day brought.

A thread that follows

Life later took me across the world from studies in the United States to family and work across Asia and Europe.

And still, horses remained.

Sometimes close, sometimes more distant but always there, gently calling me back.
A western saddle, a dressage lesson, a bareback ride by the sea.

Back in Finland, returning to my lakeside summer place in Vitsai, I connected with a neighbour’s horses and began a long relationship with a gentle thoroughbred I rode for fourteen years.

The dream

For years, I had a recurring dream.

A horse in a barn; hungry, thirsty, waiting to be fed.

Each time I woke from it, I felt a quiet urgency. As if something in my life had been left unattended. A responsibility not fully met. A connection not fully seen.

Only later did I understand.

Returning after burnout

After my sabbatical travels following burnout I found myself once again close to horses and their owners. This time, I gave space to riding in a different way.

The more I responded to their presence, the clearer their “voice” became.

I remember guiding a tinker horse who seemed to long for movement beyond the stable. Together with his owner, we returned to the forest trails. It was a quiet triumph for all of us.

Since then, I have continued working with both horses and people supporting courage, presence, and the connection between them.

Horses in the Luontopolku® journey

As my coaching deepened, horses naturally became part of my Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® experiences.

From this, an opportunity emerged to co-create horse holidays with Pegasus.

It felt like a natural progression to bring together:

• slow travel

• Finnish nature

• and the presence of horses

At my lakeside home, Blueberry Villa, built by my father in the 1990s, I now welcome guests to experience this way of being.

Here, on Taipalsaari island by Lake Saimaa, life slows down.

In Finland, horses spend their summers on green pastures. During our 5- and 7-day retreats, we collect our horses from the nearby field, walk together to the stables, and set out onto gently curving trails through birch and pine forests.

There is no rush.
Only presence, rhythm, and connection.

Feeding the inner horse

The dream of the hungry horse no longer returns.

Somewhere along the way, my inner horse was fed.

And perhaps this is what draws people here too.

Not only to ride but to reconnect.
To listen.
To respond to something within that has been waiting.

I hope to meet you there, by the lake, and to gently support you in feeding your own inner horse.

After all, it is a time to trust your energy and follow where it quietly leads.

If something in this story resonated, you don’t need to leave it here.

Each summer, I host Slow Travel Horse Holidays at Lake Saimaa, where you are paired with your own horse and guided through nature-based reflection using the Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® method.

This is not just about riding.
It is about reconnecting with nature, with the horse, and with yourself.

→ Discover upcoming Horse retreats at The Journey Studio
→ Or book a discovery call to explore if this experience is for you

Walk the walk, talk the talk

Coming from Finland, I know that talking is not always easy. We may find ways to explain things to others, but being honest with ourselves can be the hardest part.

When I guide reflective walks, there is no pressure to share anything. We simply walk. The trail invites us forward.

And yet, something interesting happens.

After a gentle opening and a moment to set a personal intention, I often suggest a short silence. It doesn’t take long before something begins to surface. A small observation along the path. A thought that follows. A quiet question that leads to another.

As we pause to take in a view or stand in a clearing, we breathe for a moment. Then we continue. One and a half hours passes quickly in nature when the mind is calm and gently engaged. And often, people feel drawn to return again.

Walking opens space

We are naturally drawn to others with whom we share something, even if we cannot immediately name it. There is often a thread somewhere in the fabric of our lives.

I hear often how easy it feels to talk while walking. And how easy it is simply to be.

This is not a formal setting where something is expected of you. There is no performance. Just a gentle walk, following a path at your own pace. You choose what to share. You look ahead, touch what surrounds you, pause when needed.

Walking and talking, like you would with a friend, is a natural and non-confrontational way to explore what is on your mind. Slowly, step by step, clarity begins to form when you set out with an intention.

Nature brings clarity

There is research on what nature, especially forests, and walking outdoors can do for us. It calms the mind, slows the heartbeat, fills the lungs, and clears the head.

There is an American saying, talk the talk and walk the walk, often referring to responsibility. On my walks, there is also a quiet responsibility: to guide your thinking toward greater gentleness with yourself. Many of us carry expectations placed on us by others, or by ourselves.

In Bangladesh, I learned a beautiful expression: eat some wind. A simple way of saying, step outside and refresh your thinking.

In Finland, we have long returned to the forest for calm and wisdom. Sitting on a tree stump, facing nature, and ourselves. Trees share with each other. And when we join them, they share with us too.

Returning to your own nature

I have traveled far and started over many times, yet I always return to my roots, to my own nature. It continues to teach me what becomes clearer with time.

I am happy to invite you to take an intentional walk as well.

You can walk on your own using my reflective guide through The Journey Studio. You can book an online session and take me with you on your walk. Or we can meet in person.

• Winter & Spring: Montgó and Benissa Ruta Ecológica, Spain

• Summer & Autumn: Lappeenranta, Lake Saimaa, Finland

You can also join a slow travel retreat and immerse yourself in Lakeland life at Blueberry Villa, where time softens and you can simply be as you are.

Take a walk

Sometimes that is where it begins.

Get your Reflective Walk Guide or book Your Reflective Walk in Spain or in Finland.

Happy Valentine’s Day to You

A different kind of love story

It’s a day we may love or hate, celebrate with friends the Finnish way or with someone dear to us.

Over the past year, I’ve often spoken about a love story when sharing my path of leaving and returning with purpose. Not the kind of story we usually expect, but the one that changed everything.

For years, like many of us, I gave and gave. I handled, managed, waited.

Until one day I realised: it was me who had to let something go.

Choosing time

When I took my sabbatical travels, I gave up a lot. Income, yes. Certainty, maybe.

But time? That was priceless.

There was no other way I could have bought the learning, clarity, and courage that came from travelling solo. I needed that time out.

And the love story I found was the most profound one of all: finally choosing myself.

Doing what I had long wished to do.
Investing in my own wellbeing.
Getting a little lost, only to find my way back home, within.

That journey was the best wellness retreat I could ever have given myself.

From travel to transformation

It’s been a year since my sabbatical ended, and so much has changed. Clarity has formed.

Travel gave me new insight, not only about the world, but about ourselves. That curiosity led me deeper into my Travel Coach Network studies.

Once a travel director, I now design experiences that don’t just take you somewhere, they take you deeper into yourself, into place, into culture.

Once a manager and supervisor, I now guide people to pause. To listen inward. Whether travelling far or simply walking a familiar forest trail.

Sometimes we look at ourselves in the same mirror for too long. We swim in the same fishbowl.

But when we step into a new environment or meet someone who truly sees us, our vision clears.

Reshaping life gently

Last year, I gently reshaped my life. Not overnight, not dramatically, but consciously. I built a structure that supports a lifestyle “on a journey every day.”

I started telling my story. Asking for help. Preparing ahead.

And interestingly, when we speak from the heart, the right people appear.

Not everyone needs to change their life completely, move countries, or leave their job.

But everyone deserves more peace. More balance. More small moments of happiness.

Courage looks different for each of us

Sometimes it’s a sabbatical.
Sometimes it’s a mindful morning.
A new hobby.
A quiet weekend trip.
Or simply a gentle pause.

Small acts of self-love, repeated throughout the year.

If you ever feel the call to create space for yourself to reflect, reset, or redesign your path, I’m here to walk alongside you and share what I’ve learned.

We don’t need to carry heavy bags.

Awareness leads to courage.
And courage grows step by step.

With love

Sending love to you this Valentine’s Day.

A Threshold Between Years

We stand at a quiet threshold between the old and the new, with 2025 turning into 2026 in just a couple of days. This moment invites reflection. There are no New Year promises, no quick fixes, no self-help shortcuts that truly carry us forward. No one else can walk your path, pave the way, or take the steps for you.

There are practices: yoga, meditation, breathwork, deep massage that help us arrive in the present moment. There are also walks we can take, forests we can return to, places where we can finally hear our own thoughts again. These are invitations to turn our gaze inward and listen to our bodies, our intuition, ourselves.

Looking Back at 2025

I walked a long path in 2025. As the new year approaches, it feels natural to look back at the highlights that shaped me. During my sabbatical travels I knew I needed to change something, and in January I felt the earth shifting beneath my feet. After journeying far and walking far, I was finally ready; ready to feel, stand on my own and to understand the inner movement taking place within me.

A Defining Moment in Bernia

One of the moments that comes to mind from 2025 is a hike in Bernia and a powerful question asked atop ancient ruins overlooking the Mediterranean valley. A question so simple and yet so profound, one we all wrestle with:

“Will this make me happy?”

That conversation on the mountain stayed with me. It nudged me deeper into presence and into trusting my own senses. In 2025 I finally understood that letting go is an act of courage, and trusting myself is an act of love.

The Healing Potential of Travel

I also think about the power of travel, its quiet ability to heal and reveal who we are. Sometimes we set out without fully understanding why, only to discover the meaning step by step along the way.

My travel coaching, studies of transformation, Finnish heritage, raising two beautiful adults, and years living across continents have all given me a gentle trust in the world. When we slow down and return to presence, we begin to hear again the world around us, and our own inner voice.

Shared Moments

One moment I cherish this year is riding beside my coachee and her horse after a year in a new country. She had been too afraid to take that first hike with her beloved companion. But she stepped up, and so did I. She faced her fear, and something shifted in both of us.

Another beautiful moment this year was welcoming the Aktiv Resor team and a dear friend into a special collaboration, a holiday that will not end. Our Appelsiinipuut kukkivat jo wellness retreat is already taking shape as the orange trees begin to bloom. This meaningful journey will take place in April 2026, and you are warmly welcome to join us.

I trust the moment now. I trust stillness. I trust the process of working with groups, showing vulnerability, and finding our way together.
I believe in imperfection. I believe in us.
I believe in you.

My Path as a Transformative Travel Coach

Today I live as a transformative travel coach and journey designer, on a journey every day. I have taken my originally author family name as my official name. I design meaningful journeys and help you map your own way. Yes, I have my certification but more importantly, I have done my walk, and I continue to walk it.

I am here for you. I walk beside you, as close as you feel comfortable, listening to what you share as the path begins to form in front of your eyes.

Luontopolku: Returning to Nature, Returning to Yourself

I simply take you to Luontopolku, the nature trail. I guide you to nature so you can reconnect with your own inner nature. You don’t need anything special. No specific equipment, no particular practice, no performance. You simply relax and step out.

You are already enough, carrying the answers within you, moving toward harmony.

There is magic in the silence of nature.
Walking unlocks the mind’s potential.
Science has shown how walking brings clarity and creative breakthroughs.

Nature begins to reflect answers back to us in shapes, patterns, and moments only we can interpret.

One walk won’t solve everything. But it offers gentle aha-moments that open the way. When we return intentionally to reflective walks, we continue to process, to understand, to move toward what is calling us next.

The Horses That Returned to My Life

My love of horses has deepened this year as they returned into my life ever more. I hear them, seek to understand them, and myself better. Hipico Oliva, the place I visited on my very first solo day in Spain in November 2024 has become part of my working landscape. And my home stables, Vitsai Village’s Kannuskylä Stables is now a partner in mindful horse holidays beginning in summer 2026.

Welcoming the Year of the Fire Horse

Happy New Year of the Fire Horse, 2026: a year symbolizing renewal, bold energy, and transformative momentum. A year of unexpected developments, personal growth, and dynamic change.

And yet, while the world may accelerate around us, the most important thing remains the same: Slow down.

Turn inward.
Take yourself into account.

You mean the most.

May 2026 be a year of presence, clarity, courage, and a return to the path that is truly yours.

I am here for you.

Whether you are in Finland seeking a spring reset under blooming orange trees, or anywhere in the world longing to reconnect with yourself through the silence of Finnish nature, your journey has a place here. Let’s find the right path for you.

Read more about Your Journey or join our Appelsiinipuut kukkivat jo wellness retreat.

Whycation to Youcation; From Another Level to Gravity

While listening to morning news podcasts, I’m bombarded with advertisements about how to capitalize on the transformation AI is bringing to businesses: reducing costs, elevating customer and entertainment experiences, making 3D mainstream, promising leverage to grow.

I shiver a little. I am no longer walking those endless corridors or joining meetings where I was already thinking about the next one unpresent in the moment, and unpresent in myself.

I had another glimpse into the state of today during a sustainability communications training I recently attended. Suddenly our group found ourselves in a shared room, tasked with solving a problem together to be presented in 15 minutes.

I was the only one with my video on, introducing myself and asking for input.
Silence.

I suggested an approach. One voice, calling from a car, said: “Great, and sorry, I’m barely able to participate.”

I solved the issue, shared it with the group who remained quiet, busy with other tasks or unable to face others, and then presented it to the full class.

Today, I am in a privileged position: I choose where to be present.
Not necessarily financially, but mentally and emotionally.

We are expected to grow businesses, utilise the newest tools, and take experiences to “the next level.” But with all these loops, hurdles, and levels, we begin to lose our ground spinning like whirling dervishes.

Presently in Bangkok, between executive speeches about growth and market insights, we heard the Tourism Authority of Thailand share how, in just one year, they shifted from cultural experiences and parties to a new theme:
“Luxury of Healing.”
Soundless nature escapes, singing bowls, natural spas, stories, and sustainability.

Again I was reminded of the balance we all need.
There is a gravity pulling us back: a craving for nature, for simple ways, for nostalgia.

When transforming and growing businesses, we should not lose the most important factor:
ourselves.

Companies and people should invest first in wellbeing, inner connection, and personal growth.
Machines still need humans to learn from: people who can think for themselves and for others, after first taking a deep breath for themselves.

Whycation to Youcation

There are deeper reasons we travel.

Why means more than where.
You mean more than anything.

I walk alongside you, observing and listening. I offer my ear so you can shape the solution you already carry within you, once you start listening in.

You might be amazed by how much you have inside when you lend yourself an ear and quiet the noise.

It may be Thailand, Finland, or another land entirely that wakes something in you, but you are the one who takes the learning home and integrates it into daily life.

My gentle solution is simple:
listen to yourself when you step intentionally into nature, wherever you are. Pay intuitive attention and begin to notice what your inner self is whispering together with a trusted coach, next to you or online, present.

Take a leap, and allow yourself to land for a moment.
You will be happy you did.

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Seeking Answers

I still get lost sometimes and need to return to my nature trails to reconnect. Even in the excitement of building something new, there is a mountain of tasks waiting, not always favourites, yet necessary.

What Is Weighing on Me?

This week, between pitching competitions where I got to speak about my Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® method, the way to Finnish Happiness, to the finals and receive supportive feedback from wellness-tourism leaders, I found myself wondering: What is weighing on me?

There is the pressure of things undone, the constant whisper to do more, the old feeling, shared by so many of us, that we still need to prove something. Even after letting go, the echo returns. In conversations this week, we explored that balance: how to stay engaged without losing ourselves, how to understand what is “enough,” and how to find a renewed sense of meaning and direction.

When I Return to the Trail

Every time I return to a trail intentionally and start listening to the nature around me, something shifts.
The stormy waves inside quiet down.
A pigeon lands and meets my gaze.
A poster on a wall brings back a memory of who I used to be.

When I note down the intuitive thoughts that arise, I begin to see what is missing, why I feel the way I do, and what needs to be released or added to feel whole again.

Nature Shows Us the Way

Nature shows us the way if we choose to listen.
But when we are burned out, overwhelmed or moving through transitions, we often don’t hear anything at all. We operate in a trance, not fully present in our own lives.

We need to break that cycle. Step out.
Travel helps awaken the senses and shift perspective, but we are not always able to travel far. In the end, it wasn’t the height of Machu Picchu that changed me. It was the depth I needed. Myself I sought.

About Luontopolku Back to Your Senses®

The Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® method I developed during my Travel Coach studies doesn’t require distance. It requires listening.

In Finland, we say:
“The forest answers what you shout into it.”

Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® is a nature-based transformational wellbeing and travel method that guides individuals back to clarity and inner balance. Rooted in mindful presence, nature practices and reflective guidance, it offers a structured yet intuitive pathway toward emotional renewal and meaningful change.

Finnish research shows that even 10 minutes in nature calms the heartbeat. Nature walks lower cortisol, support burnout recovery, prevent depression and increase mindfulness.

Luontopolku, nature trail in Finnish, draws from ancestral knowledge, Finnish science and global wellness insights, including the principles of Japanese forest bathing.

Slowing Down to Listen

Meaningful change happens when we slow down, tune in and allow nature to support our inner journey. Through movement, reflective exercises, sensory awareness and meaning-centered travel coaching, Luontopolku becomes a gentle companion toward self-understanding and inner clarity.

By following the steps in the Luontopolku® guide, you begin by asking what you wish clarity on. Then you step into nature, holding the question lightly.

Magic happens: answers appear in leaves, patterns, symbols.
You pause. You listen.
You write down the intuitive thoughts that surface.

The more intentionally we return to nature, the clearer the inner voice becomes.

A Path You Always Walk With Yourself

At 54, I gained the courage to change my life.
And so can you.

You are always journeying with yourself: listen closely to know when to stay on your path, or when it’s time to turn.

Wishing you a wonderfully slow weekend.
Take a mindful walk.
And if you feel called to explore your personal journey through a guided session, online or as a reflective Luontopolku Back to Your Senses® walk, you’re warmly welcome to make a booking.

Care for Yourself

We often feel responsible for everyone but ourselves. We take care of children, family, spouse, parents, and work. At work, we leave nothing unfinished and ensure others have answers; at home, we make sure everyone else takes their breaks.

It’s admirable to be reliable, the person everyone can turn to but who do you turn to? Who allows the leave for you? There may even be the option: adequate holidays, understanding supervisors who won’t push you for yet another achievement—but do you allow yourself to take it?

Fear Wears Many Faces

Fear can appear as being unheard, missing out, becoming left out, forgotten. Perhaps the hardest: facing yourself without structure, after so long taking care of others, managing responsibilities, following routines.

Being alone with your thoughts can feel bewildering, yet it’s here you can start listening. You can question the weight in your backpack and ask yourself:
“Do I really need to carry all this anymore?”

Start Gently

Care for yourself a little at a time.
Pay attention. Turn your ear to the journey waiting. Accept that you also need time, space, and peace.

Allow yourself to unwind in ways that feel natural. Travel and leisure trips are not challenges to conquer, achievements to measure, or races to win.

Beauty lives in the moments in between, in the truths hidden under ordinary stones. Mindful walks in nature, strolling through an unfamiliar street on a work trip, turning your gaze inward all can spark small aha moments, giving depth and clarity to your reflections.

Time is precious. Connecting with yourself begins the journey toward your natural calling. It may smoothen your experience where you are or eventually lead you somewhere entirely new but the most important thing is that you are steering.

Walking Together

As a certified travel coach and fellow traveler, I walk with people who are questioning the weight of their backpack and what to carry forward.

The journey is yours, and I’m here for the moments you need. I’ll walk alongside as you map where you wish to go using travel as your vehicle.

Pause. Reflect. Consider what you truly want.

Together, we can plan your journey back to your senses whether it’s a personal reflection path, a solo adventure you long to embark on, or a wellness retreat where you wish to immerse fully. Just book a discovery call to chat about your desires.

Horses Can Talk

How Jack the Irish Cob and a walk in nature led to courage, connection, and healing

We should walk the walk—not just talk.
I believe our steps can lead us intuitively to where we are meant to go.

Since I began walking—literally and metaphorically—serendipitous events have kept unfolding. I started my sabbatical tour of Spain by driving to Oliva beach in the autumn of 2024. Soon after settling in, I found Centro Hípico Oliva and went riding the very next day.

By January, I had moved to Dénia and, through booking a hairdresser, discovered she kept her horse at the same stables. I returned to ride with her. The natural beauty of Oliva's nature reserve—with water bodies, birds, and wildlife framed by mountains—soon became a grounding space for me. Alongside Montgó, it offered peace.

Meeting Jack

This July, a curious Irish Cob named Jack caught my attention. Observing me with his stablemates, he seemed to seek connection. He was talkative, a little cheeky, and clearly eager to do more. I suggested to his owner that I ride him out, but she was hesitant—terrified, in fact.

Jack had lived in Spain for a year but had never gone out on a hack. His owner only rode him in circles, gripped by fear from a fall when Jack was younger.

A Coaching Journey in the Saddle

Anne-Marie, Jack’s owner, had also recently acquired Novela, an 18-year-old Spanish mare. Longing to ride Jack outdoors again, she agreed to a one-week plan that combined intention setting, coaching, and gentle progress.

I rode Jack while Anne-Marie rode Novela. The horses sensed her nerves, and Jack, being a spirited soul, added a dose of macho energy to our first ride. We rode several times together, gradually increasing the distance, adding gaits, and building confidence. Anne-Marie and I also had one-on-one sessions to ensure everyone—horse and human—felt safe and seen. Jack responded beautifully—curious, expressive, and engaged. On day seven, Anne-Marie rode Jack confidently by my side, a moment she called a triumph.

Walking Toward Courage

Anne-Marie’s dream was to ride Jack to their new home in the countryside. But until we met, she hadn’t found anyone to support her in that journey. Yesterday, she did it—with me walking beside her.

It was exactly what she was meant to do, and she did it with pride. She's now smiling, glowing, and enjoying her horse—and herself—more freely than before.

Let the Journey Lead You

I don’t know how these things unfold—but they do. Since I’ve been walking my walk, staying connected to my senses and inner nature, I move lighter every day.

Would you like to dare something new for yourself?
Don’t let fear hold you hostage. You can walk around it.

Send me a note. Let’s see where your path can take you.

🌀 — Mirka Kristiina
Transformative Travel Coach | The Journey Studio

Humans Travel For—and With—Humans

Travel is all about wellbeing, and we are different people on different journeys. Whether traveling together or solo, we are always seeking something deeper: space, time, togetherness, distance, or connection. But these are not the words we typically hear when booking a trip. Instead, we see the glimmer of well-known destinations with iconic sights and sunsets flashing at us online.

Yet often, it’s the offbeat trails, the smaller towns, the cobblestone villages that leave a lasting imprint. Cultural immersion, nature connection, and authentic human encounters—these are what turn a trip into something truly transformative.

What Is Calling You?

It’s good to ask ourselves why we want to go somewhere. What is calling us? Sometimes we feel the urge to do something, to be somewhere—but don’t yet know where or why. Maybe there’s a way of traveling we’ve never tried, or a destination we’ve held back from because of what we’ve heard or assumed.

Maybe there’s more we could bring back from our holidays—insight, peace, presence—if we started with intention and allowed ourselves to follow the deeper cause behind our desire to journey. Maybe it’s finally time.

My Journey to Solo Travel

Looking back, I’ve progressed from family trips to traveling alone with my children to meaningful destinations. It took years to realize I didn’t need to wait for someone else’s availability.

Solo travel, for me, began as a way to meet someone—my own quiet escape. But somewhere along the way, I realized I didn’t need a reason or a person to justify going. I could simply travel for myself.

As I began following my own interests—horseback riding, nature trails, slow mornings in unfamiliar places—I found something surprising: serendipitous encounters, spontaneous joy, and a renewed sense of self.

It’s Not the Destination

It’s never just about the destination. It’s the journey—the transportive moments along the way—that remind us who we are. These experiences have the power to reconnect us with our inner compass and support us in becoming fully empowered, content individuals—wherever we happen to be.

Fast-track search engines and AI can get you the ticket, but not the clarity you’re looking for. That comes step by step: through conversation, reflection, presence, and paying attention.

Travel Can Be Your Tool

Helping others find clarity and confidence has become my calling—especially when they don’t yet know the exact direction, only that it’s time.

I hope you find that time for yourself too.

Use travel as your tool. Not just for escaping, but for returning—to your self-esteem, your rhythm, and the connections that nourish you.

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